Are You Getting a Divorce? 
Are You Worried About How It's Going
To Affect Your Kids?

Do You Wish You Had More Divorce Support? 

We Can Help.

Get The Tools You Need To Feel Empowered, And Learn How Kids of Divorce Can Stay Happy, Confident, and Connected

You have found yourself on this site because you are at a fork in the road.

Perhaps you’ve just begun to seriously consider divorce, or you just walked out of the court after the final decree. Maybe your spouse just mentioned the word today to your dismay, or maybe you’re the one initiating change.

No matter where you are on your journey, you’re concerned about how the relationship between you and your ex is impacting your children.

You probably have mixed feelings; perhaps feelings of anger, frustration, anxiety or guilt. You may be experiencing the painful feelings of rejection and betrayal, sadness and loneliness.

An aching heart is a common and normal part of the grieving cycle.

Or you may feel total relief that you are now out of a bad situation and look forward to a new life and at the same time are uneasy about the future for yourself and your children.

No matter how you are feeling at this point in time, Children in the Shadows of Divorce is a divorce recovery program that will help teach you the skills to form better, healthier relationships and will you the knowledge on what to look for in new ones.

The program is presented with a mind, body, spirit approach and will help you to learn to identify and trust your inner voice and take time to make sure this next phase of your life is a better fit. The program will give you a different perspective on your failed relationship and the importance of what you have learned that will be valuable in your next one.

This divorce support program will give you the vision of who you can become in spite of all the anxieties you may have, and help you grow into your full potential.

But this program isn't just about you

It's also about your children.

A Note From The Creator of This Program...

Mimi Lupin

Hi There,

My name is Mimi Lupin, developer of this program. I wanted to take a moment to tell you why I created it and why signing up for it is one of the best things you will ever do for yourself and your kids.

I developed this program as someone who has experienced divorce from all angles; as a child of divorce and now happily remarried after my own divorce. As a result, I have experienced the same feelings of anger, sadness, anxiety regarding the future,and the feelings of overwhelm that you may also feel and can speak to these from personal experience. I have also spent years teaching, coaching and supporting others going through divorce and it is part of my life's mission. 

I know the pain and sadness of going through divorce, but I also know that there's a reason we find ourselves at this point.  Usually it is actually best for all involved, if only we can find a way to deal with our emotions and learn how to come out of it stronger, happier, and more empowered.

If you've looked around online, you may have found that, yes, there are other sites that offer free divorce support and divorce recovery help.

Chances are the times when you're surfing around the internet looking for divorce support are when you're feeling most down, frustrated and worried. Then, at the end of the night, when you've shut off your computer and your brain is shutting down, the information is gone and you're back on your own to face your particular situation feeling no more peaceful than before.

This divorce recovery program will offer you ongoing support as you go through your divorce. Support is so very important during this time and can make all the difference for your outcome.

“Life breaks us all sometimes, but some grow strong at broken places.”

Over time as you practice and develop the skills you will learn in this course, you will find yourself feeling less and less desperate and more and more empowered in numerous ways. 

You'll recognize situations and circumstances that have been covered in the course, and you'll discover a new way to deal with them. Years from now, you will look back and see just how helpful each of these presenter's information will have been in your recovery from this major life event.

Most people who have completed just the first few sessions of this program have found it of great value and in a few cases where both partners were mandated by the court to participate in my first two sessions, some couples saw their situation so differently that they decided to enter counseling to see if they might be able to solve their relationship problems after all.

(In case you're curious, some were able to, and some weren't.)

The reason these classes are so impactful is because the skills and techniques you'll learn aren't just for divorce.

They're for life.

They're for relationships.

They're for you.

And they're for your kids.

Wherever you go, whatever you do, these skills will support you and your children in leading happier, healthier lives.

I created this program to support people like you, and I want you to be entirely happy with it. If you're not happy, I don't want you to pay.

That's why I'm offering a 100% money-back guarantee.  If you order the program today and for any reason aren't satisfied, I'll give you your money back anytime within the first 60 days. 

So sign up today, give the program a try, and see how much of a difference it will make in our life.

I wish you all the best.

Warmest Regards,

Mimi Lupin

 

How Can You Make Your Divorce
As Easy As Possible On Your Kids?

On top of your own emotions, there are concerns about your children...

How will they handle it all?

Are they having problems at home or in school now? Which is the best path to take for their sake? What does the future hold for each of you?

Are you modeling the attitude, behavior and words that you want your children to learn and live?

Do you know what questions to ask your children to make sure they do alright during this difficult time and don’t end up with lasting problems as a result?

It’s not easy to fully support your children during this difficult time when your own heart is hurting and your own emotional well is running dry. You may not feel equipped to deal with your own feelings, let alone those of your children. It might seem easier to pretend that everything is okay, to try and insulate them from the pain.

But children are sensitive to the circumstances and feelings of the adults around them and often overhear conversations that are upsetting to them.

It’s best to be honest about what’s going on, but do you know how to be honest without putting undue strain on them?

This divorce support program can help with all these questions and issues -- it will be like having your own personal divorce recovery team.

Your Children Can Go Through Divorce
& Be Okay, With Your Help

Yes, it's possible for children to come out of divorce feeling loved, safe, happy and confident.

In fact, there are a number of concrete ways that you can support your child or children as you go through divorce. Children in the Shadows of Divorce teaches you what you need to know in order to make the best of this difficult time and to support the emotional well-being of your children.

This program will guide you along the healing process so that you can be present for your children and lessen the negative effects for them during this complicated time.

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect (or a Rocket Scientist) To Be a Good Divorced Parent

Children in the Shadows of Divorce offers hope, help, support and the skills you will need along the way as you make the best decisions you can at each fork in the road along your personal journey. And it will help you change the behaviors that are so hurtful to children to ensure that you have a lifelong loving relationship with them.

Children in the Shadows of Divorce will help you...

  • Overcome stress, sadness, loss, depression and other uncomfortable feelings regarding your divorce.
  • Learn the five most important behaviors to avoid in order to protect your children’s long term mental and emotional health and an easy way to remember them. 
  • Get just the right support to meet the challenges of co-parenting your child or children with your ex-spouse.
  • Emotionally separate from your ex and learn to set and respect boundaries in the relationship.
  • Heal yourself emotionally and raise your own self esteem so that you can help your children feel good about themselves, no matter what.

The basic skills taught in this program have been developed and thoroughly tested over many years.

There are some very simple things you can say and do to make this process easier on your children, and there are also some things that will take a little bit more effort and thought.

But they will all contribute to equipping you with the skills, tools and foresight to make this experience as painless and healthy as possible for you and your kids.

Having the Right Tools and the Right Coaches Will Help

A number of nationally-known presenters will be your divorce coaches. Each will offer a variety of skills and important information that are essential to living successfully as a single parent.

The sessions will help you:

  • Change your own challenging behaviors
  • Learn the skills necessary to stop the cycles of poor communication between you and your ex and other relationships as well
  • Strengthen or renew the bonds between you and your child
  • Know what questions to ask your children about their experience to help them through this time

The techniques you will learn in this course use a Mind-Body-Spirit approach, including:

  • Energy psychology to make necessary behavior changes
  • Proven do’s and don’ts from an evidenced-based program
  • Compassionate Communication skills to facilitate more effective, less frustrating communication with your ex
  • Help with depression
  • How to apologize to your children in a way that promotes their self-esteem
  • Help to identify and begin to heal your own early traumas and stuck emotions that keep you from forming better relationships.

When you order this program today you'll ensure the emotional health of yourself and your children. Your children’s future--as well as your own--depends upon your learning and implementing the skills we teach in this program.

There Is No Road Map for Your Unique Journey Through Divorce, But We Can Give You the Tools to Navigate Your Own Course


This divorce support program will help you have more peace of mind, harmony in your relationships and more self-awareness. You will be encouraged to become more conscious and to live in the moment.

These attitudes, along with the willingness to look within in order to grow and make necessary changes, will lead to hope, more success, happiness and close connections with your children and others.

One of the most important basic human needs we have is for connection with others and a sense of belonging. We each long for a relationship that will satisfy us at the soul level. We all want to be able to open our hearts again and trust another.

You do deserve happy, fulfilling relationships, along with a better future for you and your kids.  And, the sessions contained in this course will help you achieve these goals.  You'll find out how you can avoid making the same mistakes all over again and find a new relationship that will be bring you more peace, love and contentment.

Try this program today. You will be amazed by your growth and the knowledge you will acquire. An exciting and uplifting journey awaits you!

What You Get Learn From This Course

Children In The Shadows of Divorce features nationally-known experts teaching sessions in their area of expertise.

The areas to be covered include:

  • Nonviolent Communication
  • Radical Forgiveness
  • Emotional Regression
  • Energy Psychology
  • Emotional Freedom
  • Learning to love yourself
  • Recognizing and developing your own inner power

Each session is approximately 45 minutes to an hour and will include

  • A video
  • A transcript of the video
  • A Handout for most presentations
  • A list of recommended books and online resources for a more in-depth study of the topic presented

These sessions will be recorded and can be accessed at any time of the day or night.

Many of the materials included in this program are gathered from evidence-based research studies which have shown this information to be very supportive and helpful in changing parents' behavior. The skills and information taught each week can be thought about and practiced before the next session is offered. Each session builds on the understandings of the previous sessions.

Sessions 1 & 2

What to Expect Along Your Journey Through Divorce

Mimi Lupin
In Session 1, You'll Find Out...
  • Which feelings are normal during this traumatic time
  • What the grief cycle is as it relates to divorce and how it applies to your situation
  • How children are feeling during this time and what signs you should recognize as being problematic.
  • Which co-parenting attitudes are essential to protecting your children’s emotional health.
  • What your child wants you to know as you go through this process
  • How to talk to children about the divorce
  • Which questions you MUST ask your children on a regular basis (and which ones NOT to ask)

In Session 2, Discover....

  • The 5 most important behaviors parents should avoid for your kids’ best interest and how to remember them.
  • How to tell what boundaries issues you have with your ex, and what to do with them
  • How to recognize your Shadow and how you can grow through relationships by becoming accountable for your role in the broken relationship in order not find yourself in the same situation next time.
  • A metaphor to help heal anger, explain why anger is useful, and how it can actually help you heal
  • The Forgiveness Process that will help you reconnect with your children and develop closer lifelong relationships with them.
  • How to avoid escalating a discussion with your spouse into an argument.
  • The New Possibilities for a happier and more fulfilling life: In your love life, your career, hobbies, self-esteem, and spirituality.

Mimi is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Associate School Psychologist who has worked with children and parents for over thirty years. She trains counselors nationwide to present her session of this program to parents in their communities and teaches a monthly class to divorcing parents mandated by the family court in her town.

She was a child of divorce and a divorced parent as well and knows well the issue from both sides. Over the years she has produced numerous programs for children with behavioral and emotional problems including the Old Me New Me for children with challenging behaviors.

“Mimi is so informative. I have learned many helpful ways to help me with my actions in dealing with my granddaughter and her [parents].

I am going to do my best to apply all she has taught us today on my relationship with them.

Thanks Mimi!”

--B.Wright
Grandmother
Hot Springs, Arkansas

Session 3

Releasing and Healing Troubling Feelings Quickly Through Energy Psychology

Dr. George Pratt
In Session 3, You'll Find Out...
  • How energy psychology works to begin to heal the nervous system and your negative feelings
  • A two minute exercise that is calming, will help you release negative feelings
  • An exercise that will change your perspectives on troubling events in the past
  • An easy process you can do on a daily basis that will give you a sense of hope
 George Pratt serves as Chairman of Psychology, Scripps Memorial Hospital, La Jolla, Ca. and is presently on the faculty of the University of California, San Diego. Dr. Pratt has written numerous books, has appeared on national television programs and has conducted his Swimming with the Dolphins: The Power of Energy seminars on the Kona Coast of the Big Island for four years.
 

 

Sessions 4 & 5

Introduction to Compassionate Communication

Barbara Larson

Session 4: Speaking With Power and Kindness

  • Identify your needs and express them with power, vulnerability and kindness.
  • Get what you want without manipulation, guilt, shame, blame, criticism or the silent treatment.
  • Use the truth of your words to heal yourself and create the life you long for.




Session 5: Empowered Listening

  • Practice the art of Empathy: understand what people are feeling and needing, no matter what they say (or don't say)
  • Dive under peoples' judgements ,criticism & diagnoses to the hear the vulnerable "please"
  • Free yourself from guilt, anger, shame & feeling responsible for people's feelings
Since 1999, Barbara has been exploring and sharing the process of Nonviolent Communication as a certified trainer for the Center for Nonviolent Communication. Barbara’s trainings are inspired by her desire to live her values of compassion, love, and community. She particularly enjoys exploring the inner experience of NVC, noticing how connecting with needs can help answer the questions “Who am I and Why am I here?” To fulfill a dream to walk her talk, she and her partner and colleague Douglas Dolstad are creating an intentional NVC living/learning community on Vashon Island, Washington, where the principles of nonviolence, compassion and community are lived and shared.

"My wife and I have been providing a parent education program for our local district court for about 18 years. During that time, we made modifications of our program based on our experiences, continuing education programs and our readings. We attended Mimi's divorce education program, and felt that adding this additional information would compliment our approach. 

This program was presented in a professional, personable manner and the program fully met our needs. We highly recommend [it]."

--Charles B. Ph.D.
Psychologist
Suzanne  B. Ph.D.
Family and Child Development Consultant

Session 6

Depression is Contagious:
How to Keep Yourself & Your Kids Emotionally Healthy

Michael D. Yapko, Ph.D.

 

In this lesson you'll find out...

  • What factors influence depression (and it's not just about biology)
  • How to keep from passing along to your kids what you call the “hand-me-down blues”
  • How gadgets, the Internet, and social networking are contributing to our collective depression
  • What skills make a difference in reducing or overcoming depression (and how you can develop them)

 
Michael D. Yapko, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and marriage and family therapist residing in Fallbrook, California. He is internationally recognized for his work in clinical applications of hypnosis, treating depression, and developing strategic, outcome-focused psychotherapies. He routinely teaches to professional audiences all over the world. To date, he has been invited to present his ideas and methods to colleagues in 29 countries across six continents, and all over the United States. Dr. Yapko is the author of numerous books, book chapters, and articles on the subjects of hypnosis, depression, and the use of strategic psychotherapies.

Session 7

Happiness: How to Have More of It

Michael D. Yapko, Ph.D.
  • What is positive psychology and how it can help us
  • Four things that we can all do to find more happiness in our lives
  • What skills we need to develop to have more happiness in our lives
Dr Lynn Johnson is director of the Brief Therapy Center in Salt Lake City, Utah. He has been in practice for over thirty years, has written 20 professional articles and four books. He teaches effective therapy tools to counselors all over the country and in four foreign countries. He and his wife are parents of four healthy children, his greatest accomplishment.


 

Session 8

Releasing and Healing Troubling Behaviors Quickly Through Energy Psychology

Nancy Gnecco, LPC
In Session 8, You'll Learn to...
  • Clear the negative attachments to another person
  • Energetically remove that person from your thoughts and energy
  • Empower yourself by coming into your central core
  • Open yourself to the possibility of healthy relationships
 As a Licensed Professional Counselor, Nancy brings to the Energy Psychotherapy session a solid background in mental health and school counseling. She incorporates dynamic short-term modalities which provide rapid, effective, often permanent relief from most psychological problems. These modalities offer multi-dimensional depth psychotherapy: healing that bypasses the cognitive and treats problems at their source - the body's energy.

Nancy has attained the highest certification possible in the EFT community - then called EFT Master, now called EFT Honors Certification, and has been utilizing and teaching Meridian Tapping since 1997. With a Master's Degree in Education, Nancy brings a wealth of professional and personal experience to her highly experiential sessions and workshops. She is also a certified Trainer in Tapas Acupressure Technique, and Comprehensive Chakra Therapy, as well as an ACEP Diplomat.
 

Session 9

Joyce Catlett

Joyce Catlett

 New Relationship Possibilities

[Or how to have a better outcome in your new relationship]

  • Investigating Attitudes toward a New Partner
  • Becoming Aware of How We May Be Contributing to an Argument or a Relationship Problem
  • Personality Traits to Look for in a Potential Partner and to Further Develop in Yourself
Joyce Catlett, MA, author and lecturer, has collaborated with Dr. Robert Firestone in writing ten books and numerous professional articles. Most recently, she co-authored Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice (New Harbinger, 2002) and Creating A Life of Meaning and Compassion: The Meaning of Psychotherapy(APA Books, 2003). Ms. Catlett began her career in psychology in 1972, working with autistic children at the Camarillo State Hospital Children's Treatment Center in Camarillo, CA. A founding member of Glendon Association, she has been a national lecturer and workshop facilitator in the areas of child abuse prevention and couple relations. With Glendon, she has co-produced 37 video documentaries on a wide range of mental health topics. Ms. Catlett was also instrumental in the development and training of instructors in the Compassionate Child Rearing Education Program and in training mental health professionals in Voice Therapy Methodology.

Everyone should be required to take this class before their divorce. :)

--Debbie R.
Hot Springs, Arkansas

Session 10

Radical Forgiveness

Colin Tipping
In Session 10, You'll Find Out...
  • How and why forgiveness will solve problems that Reconciliation & Mediation may not be able to
  • What the difference is between Traditional Forgiveness and Extraordinary Forgiveness
  • Why Self-Forgiveness is one of the most important steps to take for yourself (AND why it’s so important to model it for your kids)
  • What Radical Forgiveness means
  • Where Accountability and Responsibility come in to play in all this
Colin Tipping is the creator of what has come to be recognized as one of the most powerful leading-edge technologies for personal and spiritual growth today — Radical Forgiveness. He is the acknowledged authority on the application of this technology to the "healing" of individuals, families, races, corporations, and communities. He is an award-winning author and leads workshops around the world. Those who have praised his work include John Bradshaw, Mark Victor Hanson, Caroline Myss, Neale Donald Walsch and Gregg Braden. In 2000, he founded the Institute for Radical Forgiveness Therapy and Coaching, Inc., based in Atlanta, Georgia. The purpose of the Institute was to train people in the skills and practice of Radical Forgiveness Therapy and Coaching and Radical Manifestation. It still continues today.

Session 11

Rev. Leona Lawson

Rev. Leona Lawson

In This Session ...

Dr. Lawson will present the following ideas for those individuals looking forward to meeting a new partner (and some tips for how to have a more successful outcome in your new relationship)

  • Coming soon...

Rev. Lawson will offer hope and wisdom of the ages to encourage and strengthen all who listen. She went through a painful divorce herself years ago and can identify with those issues and went back to school for a degree in counseling in order to help herself. She has been happily married now for a number of years. Rev. Lawson is an amazing woman with tremendous wisdom to share and will offer one hour counseling sessions in return for a small fee donated to the non-profit, Making the World A Better Place to help produce a documentary for divorcing parents. Her philosophy is, “You create your own reality with your words, thoughts, and actions.”

She is a retired educator as well as a minister with a lifetime certificate in Special Education, Elementary Education and School Counseling. She was clinical supervisor of Education Interns at Henderson State University in Arkansas and in her spare time served as guest speaker in several churches in Arkansas.

Session 12

TBA

 

 

This program is a one-of-a-kind compilation of priceless information from experts who are experienced in and specialize in your situation and the feelings around it.

These presenters do not consider themselves “gurus” as each of us are both, at the same moment in time, students and teachers; each of us still learning our life lessons where ever we might be in life.

These coaches however do have practical information and years of wisdom gathered from their own experiences and their support of others, that they can offer you to make life easier, more joyful and peaceful while reducing your fears and anxieties about your future.

The Children In The Shadows of Divorce program provides you with the help, experience and knowledge to lead you successfully on the other side of this life experience--All in one comprehensive program!

At An Amazingly Low Price...

The information contained in this course is easily worth several hundred dollars according to my marketing expert.  In fact, some of the presenters in this course charge more than $250 an hour for a one-on-one session! But you get to discover the best they have to offer for a fraction of that price.

Where else can you have an expert in their field give you an hour's worth of information and support for less than ten bucks?! Let alone having 12 such sessions! 


 I'm excited to announce that you'll get a tremendous savings and when sign up today, you can get access to all this information for just $97 as an initial opening special price, often less than the cost of one counseling session.

$97

That comes out to slightly more than $8 per session.  There will be a lot of costs involved in your divorce, but the greatest cost of all might be the toll it takes on your children, both now and in the long term. Learn what you need to know to protect their emotional well being by paying a small amount now and avoid paying the price later. So enroll now while this price is still in effect.

"Ms. Lupin's divorce recovery program is the very best thing that I have done for my children and myself since divorcing their father 6 months ago.

I realized how much I did right intuitively as a parent, however there were a couple of things that were taught that needed immediate attention for the emotional stability and growth of my two children. Thank you Mimi for not sugar coating life when it comes to our children!"

--Elizabeth
Mena, Arkansas

60 Day Money-Back Guarantee

100% Money-Back Guarantee

If you order the program today and for any reason aren't satisfied, I'll give you your money back anytime within the first 60 days. Just send me an email at and I'll refund your money.

(I only limit it to 60 days because that's as long as the company I use to process payments will let me do it, otherwise, I wish I could give you a life-time guarantee.)